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During the Departmental Process

This process can be long, and at times emotional and confusing. Some things you can do in this time are...

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Starting the Process

  • Contact your State/Territory Department ask them about what is involved in the adoption process for your State/Territory. Some things you could ask about are....
    • what are the requirements for people to adopt in your State/Territory,
    • what the steps you need to take to begin the adoption process,
    • what forms you need to submit,
    • what Seminars and/or Education days that you need to attend,
    • about the 'adoption application',
    • the interviews you need to undertake,
    • when do you need to have decided the country you wish to apply to adopt from (in most States/Territories you do not need to have decided on a country when you submit your Expression of Interest form).




Join AACASA

  • Join AACASA - this will give you opportunities to talk to and meet with many people with similar experiences.
  • Once you have joined AACASA, you can join the AACASA e-group.
  • Purchase the AACASA Support Package, read the package.

  • If you have not yet decided to apply to adopt from Ethiopia you might like to join a number of other parent support groups as well - this can be very helpful in learning more about the experiences of other adoptive parents and adoptees from different countries, and to help you make an informed decision about which country you would like to apply to adopt from.




Meet people & go places

  • Go to AACASA picnics; talk with other adoptive-parents and waiting-parents and meet other people in the same process.
  • Go to Ethiopian events
  • Eat at Ethiopian/African restaurants.




Read

  • Use this time to read more about adoption - websites and books.
  • Learn more about Ethiopia and her history, geography and customs.
  • Re-read or check who you can and cannot contact at this time - you don't want to risk having your application cancelled for making a mistake - for full information see your AACASA Support Package.




Things to do

  • Do a walk over your house - is it child safe? Even crawl on the floor and check what "little fingers and eyes" might spot.
  • Meet with your priest or minister - talk about your plans - and ask if she/he would be willing to give you a reference when this is needed.




Discuss

  • Talk with your immediate family about the process and what it means to your family.
  • Talk with your extended family and your friends.

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Waiting for Allocation

The time after you have been approved and while you are waiting to be allocated a child can be long. Here are some suggestions of things to do...

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Meet people & go places





Lists

Begin lists that you will need at allocated, for example...

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  • TO DO LIST... list of things to do once you are allocated
    (see your AACASA Support Package).
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  • CONTACT LIST... a list of phone numbers, email addresses and/or website addresses for people/organisations you will need to contact at allocation
    (e.g. your State Aid adviser, travel agent, website address forTravel Advice for Ethiopia, your case worker, the Ethiopian Consulate General, etc), including notes of who you can & cannot contact.
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  • WHAT TO PACK... a list of things to take (see your AACASA Support Package).
    Talk to other people and read postings on the e-group of what other parents suggest you take and not take to Ethiopia.
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  • TRAVEL BOOKINGS... read notices on the e-group and take note of which airlines, travel agents, accommodation in Ethiopia and taxi drivers in Ethiopia that travelling parents have used and what advise they have. If the advise suits your family then write these as a list of who to contact and what to request when booking your flights and accommodation.
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  • CARE PACKAGE... print out the list of the items to take to Koala House in your Care Package - and pin this on the fridge with your weekly shopping list (perhaps buy one item a week with your weekly shopping).




Things to do

  • Learn Amharic - there are CD's to help you do this. Also, in some areas AACASA members have organised Amharic language lessons.
  • Do the things you've always wanted to do, especially the things that will be difficult to do once you have your child/ren at home.
  • Do a walk over your house - is it child safe? Even crawl on the floor and check what "little fingers and eyes" might spot.
  • Many expectant and waiting-parents like to make a journal/diary of their journey towards parenthood - keeping copies of all your documents, a diary of your experiences and photos of any get-togethers and events attended.
  • Begin collecting items to take to Koala House in your Care Package - perhaps collect one item a week with your weekly shopping.
  • Subscribe to be notified when there is a change in Travel Advice
  • Periodically there are workshops on attachment - keep an eye out for when these are being held in your State/Territory and try to attend at least one set of workshops.
  • Sometimes there are talks and/or workshops on Life Books - try to attend one before you leave to travel overseas.




Health care preparations

  • Contact your private health care provider and request their policy in writing regarding adopted children (in the age-range you are applying for) regarding waiting periods, and in particular waiting periods for existing conditions.
  • Read the Medicare information sheet for parents adopting a child from overseas.

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Getting ready to travel

When to Travel





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When your child is home

To do

  • Mark on the Calendar the date that you met your child - on this date each year you need to complete and send in your Annual Report.
  • When you have finalised your child's adoption check if your State/Territory Department requires you to send them proof of your child's Australian Citizenship.
  • Go to AACASA picnics; meet other families who have children the same age as your son/daughter.
  • Make your child's Life Book.
  • Add your child to your own private health care, and to your Medicare card.
  • Unsubscribe to be notified when there is a change in Travel Advice
  • Is your child's name on the AACASA list of Meanings of Ethiopian Names? If not, let the compiler (or the Website Editor) know your child's name so it can be added.
  • Notify the AACASA Newsletter Editor that you have arrived home - and sendl a photo to be included in the next Newsletter
  • To download the Application for a Certificate of Evidence of Australian Citizenship for your son/daughter, you need Form 119 from the Department of Immigration - website.



AmharicCards

  • Some waiting-parents like to make cards or a booklet with English and Amharic words along with pictures e.g. have cards for the bedroom have 'teddy', 'pillow', 'bed' etc.
  • If you have cards then these can be easily blu-tacked to the walls in each room of the house (and each wall of the hotel when you are in Ethiopia).
  • If you make a book - you could either buy one of those simple books that have one picture for one word, and write next to them the Amharic word, or make your own simple book with pictures.
  • Both you and your child can look up the words/pictures for what you are trying to say.


Amharic Dominoes

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One excellent way to practice a new language is to play games.

This version of dominoes is a simple, but fun and effective game that anyone can make at home.

You do not need to make full-colour photograph cards (like the ones shown at the top of this webpage) – simple cards with the English word on one side and the Amharic (or other language) word on the other side are perfectly suitable.

The game can be played by one person, or it can be played with 2 or more people.

To make the game follow these simple instructions…

  • Write a simple list of what words you want to learn in Amharic (e.g. hello, what is your name, goodbye to a male, goodbye to a female, etc).
  • Begin with some cards (any size, but approximately 6cm x 8cm is good). How many cards you have depends on you – but starting with about 10 to 20 cards is probably good for the first time.
  • You can cut out your own cards or buy card paper pre-cut from any stationary store.
  • Draw a line down the centre of each card like this
  • Start with the first card, on its right-hand-side write the English word for the first word on your list. Alternatively, you could draw or paste a picture of the item (e.g. apple, strawberry, orange).
  • On the 2nd card, on its right-hand-side write the English word for the 2nd word on your list. Continue until all the cards have an English word on their right-hand-side. For example…

  • Arrange the cards touching end to end in a circle


  • Looking at only the 1st and 2nd cards – the English word is written on the right-hand-side of the 1st card … now right the Amharic word on the left-hand-side of the 2nd card. For example…

  • Now look at the 2nd and 3rd cards – write the Amharic word on the left-hand-side of the 3rd card. For example…

  • Continue like this all the way around the circle… ensuring that the English and Amharic words are ‘next to’ each other in the circle.
  • Once you are sure it is all completed, pick up the cards and mix them all up.

How you play ‘language dominoes’…

  • Share out the cards among the people playing (you do not all have to have exactly the same number of cards)
  • One person starts by laying a card down on the table
  • Any person who can “match” the card directly to the left or to the right of this card may put down one of their cards.
  • Continue until all the cards are used.
  • It should form a circle (or square) just as it did when you were making the cards.

Suggestions…

  • Perhaps make a number of “sets” of dominoes. For example, you could have one “set” that is for greetings (e.g. hello, goodbye, what is your name, my name is…, etc), another “set” could be for food (e.g. apples, oranges, potatoes, peas, etc), another “set” could be for objects in the house (e.g. chair, table, lounge, bed, etc).
  • Alternatively, you could make up ‘flash cards’, where the Amharic word is written on one side and the English word on the back of the card.
  • The list is endless for how you can make up games to practice a new language.

Jigsaw Puzzle - Ethiopian Map

This is a suggestion for all those people who would like to learn the regions of Ethiopia, the main cities and the surrounding countries and bodies of water.

It can be made from cardboard or from ply wood. The diagrams shown is a simple example made from ply wood.

To make the plywood version you will need:

  • 2 sheets of plywood that are the same size (the example shown is 5 mm thick - which was a little too thin, sized about 30 cm x 40 cm)
  • An electronic jig saw or scroll saw or a manual fret-saw or similar with a thin/fine blade
  • Sandpaper – medium to fine grades
  • Spray paint or wood dyes
  • Glue (e.g. liquid nails)
  • Tracing paper & carbon paper (or similar)
  • Map of Ethiopia (that shows the Ethiopian regions i.e. Afar, Amhara, Oromo, Tigre, etc).

To do:

  • Sand both of the boards, first with a medium grade sandpaper; continue sandpapering with finer grades of paper until the surfaces are smooth.
  • Paint or dye one of pieces of plywood. Set it aside to dry. (you can see in the first picture above that in this example it was painted yellow).
  • To begin, find a map of Ethiopia (fairly recent - you want your map to show current country boarders). You want a map that shows the Ethiopian regions (i.e. Afar, Amhara, Oromo, Tigre, etc).
  • Use a photocopier to enlarge if you need to. The example above is made on a board approximately 30 cm x 40 cm.
  • Use tracing paper to trace the outline of Ethiopia, include the immediately surrounding countries. In a different coloured pen/pencil draw in the boarders for the Ethiopian regions. Note though that if you are using plywood, you do not want to copy the exact boarder lines – as unless you have a very fine/thin blade for the jig saw – the twists and turns in the boarders will be too difficult to cut with the jig saw.
  • Tape the carbon paper and tracing paper onto one of the pieces of plywood – trace over the outlines.
  • Use your saw to cut along the lines.
  • Sand all the cut edges until they are smooth.
  • Paint or dye the cut pieces. For example, the bodies of water could be blue, the countries that are not Ethiopia could be one shade of green, and the regions of Ethiopia can be a darker shade of green. Set all the pieces aside to dry.
  • Position all the pieces on top of the second piece of plywood. In the example shown, the countries and bodies of water that surround Ethiopia were all glued permanently onto the other piece of plywood. The pieces that are the regions of Ethiopia were not glued down and made up the ‘jig saw’.
  • Lastly, thin holes were drilled into each of the regions, and simple ‘name flags’ were made from pieces of card and toothpicks. This added a second layer to the jig saw puzzle where the person needed to remember the names of the countries, bodies of water and regions of Ethiopia. Alternatively, the names of the regions/countries could be written onto the pieces.
  • The two chartered cities Addis Ababa and Dire Dawa were too small to cut out as separate regions, although they did have their own ‘name flag’ and a small ring was drawn with permanent pen in the correct place.

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